Ramai yang mengkagumi cara Datuk Dr Sheikh Muszaphar mendidik anak-anaknya. Bukan sahaja dua anak perempuan yang sudah besar tetapi juga dua kembarnya yang semakin bijak keletahnya. Ternyata angkasawan negara ini begitu menerapkan eleman kekeluargaan dalam mendidik anak-anaknya. Bukan itu sahaja, beliau juga turut memberi galakan kepada isteri tercinta, Dr Halina untuk menyambung pelajarannya.

Perkara ini diluahkan dalam laman sosial Dr Sheikh dan status ini mendapat komen positif dari followernya. Beliau berkata memang Dr Halina mahu menjadi menjadi suri rumah sepenuh masa dan menjaga anak-anak, tetapi Dr Sheikh meyakinkan isterinya untuk sambung belajar dan isterinya itu akan mengucapkan terima kasih pada beliau satu hari nanti.

Malah menurutnya lagi penting bagi anak-anak untuk melihat ibu bapa mereka sebagai ‘role model’. Kita yang perlu menjadi contoh terbaik supaya mereka akan dapat mengikut jejak langkah satu hari nanti. Apatah lagi, kanak-kanak sangat peka dan cepat belajar daripada apa yang kita lakukan.

Pic – Too early for a smile … Showered the girls and prepared breakfast for them to get ready for school , Milk for Adam while Noah is still fast asleep and now heading to Kota Bharu for a talk with Danajamin100 at Perdana Hotel . My beloved wife Dr Halina is sitting for her exams starting today and she’s totally stressed out – that explains my picture today ….? Dr Halina wanted to become a full time housewife taking care of the kids but I convinced her to further her studies . I believe she will thank me later . It’s important for the kids to look up to their parents as role models . We have to lead by example hoping they would follow our footsteps. Kids are very observant .Even very small minute details they would do what we do . Hence my rules in the house – Never argue in front of the kids Never raise your voice to the kids Create a fun loving environment Always say I love you to the kids Hug and kiss your kids 10x a day . InsyaAllah …. they will turn out to be beautiful kids inside out . Happy Monday Everyone … PS – Do pray for Dr Halina on her exams .Sacrifices need to be made for the sake of the kids . Love As Always ….

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Rata-rata memuji komitmen Dr Sheikh yang menggalakkan isterinya sambung belajar walaupun terikat dengan komitmen kerja dan keluarga.

@alvinazuhayra@roselinda5794 Subhanallah indeed it is difficult to make life choices between a successful career or a family when there are so many points of view. It is easy to be judged as a dedicated mother when choosing to be professionally successful. It is also easy to be judged as lazy when choosing to be a stay-at-home wife. Apapun moga segala keputusan yg diambil mendpt redha Allah dan wanita pasti akan lebih sejahtera minda dan fizikal jika dikembalikan pada tugasan Fitrahnya, tambahan lg jika empunya diri sudah berkehendakkan fitrah tersebut. Anyway best of luck to @drhalina semoga lulus peperiksaan dgn jayanya and become a good doctor. aminn 

@hanaidros@drsheikhmuszapharwhat you’ve said is 100% right, @drhalina, you’ve given the opportunity by Allah to serve the ummah. My father always say this: a woman must work, there is no ‘but’. A woman must earn her own money, because at the end of the day the money you earn will give the freedom that another woman can only imagine.

@fvtinshairahGood luck @drhalina! Semoga Allah permudahkan jalan. I aspire to be like you someday in the future. Please make doa for me too @drhalina

@ekinmostarThank you @drsheikhmuszaphar and the rest for sharing your thoughts..and all the best to Dr Halina..both of you are really inspiring.

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Ada juga yang berkongsi pengalaman mereka tidak menyambung pelajaran kerana mahu membantu keluarga.

@hakimazmi3 Im not further my study after finished secondary because want help my parent and my brothers n sister still in school that time. Alhamdulillah all of them managed to finish their studies at the university and successful in their career. Now I’m father of 2 kids and supporting my wife finish her PhDs this year InsyaAllah… I still do not believe that I started supporting her since she first started her degree till now. Time flies. Maybe after this, it is my turn InsyaAllah. Wishing you everything Great Datuk. Allah, and His berkah, rahmat which is your happiness (kids) is always with you… Everything will be ease n smooth InsyaAllah… You have a good and great heart. A Great leader n truly familyman. All my prayers goes with you.. Good luck

Bukan itu sahaja, ada yang turut meminta pandangan darinya jika seseorang wanita itu mahu mengembangkan kerjayanya tetapi tidak mendapat sokongan dan apa harus dilakukan.

@shariffahsaadiah Hi Dr. Sheikh, just want to ask for your opinion, is it true that a mother with small childrens can pursue the career of her dream if she have all the support systems that she needed? if the husband side not being supportive, what will be your advice for the mother?

Dan ini pula jawapan Dr Sheikh di atas pertanyaan ini.

@drsheikhmuszaphar@shariffahsaadiah It’s not easy for a single mother to work and raise her children both at the same time … You gotta get help from your loved ones …

Selain itu, ada juga follower beliau yang beranggapan tidak mahu kahwin kerana mahu menyambung kerjaya, tetapi persepsi berubah selepas membaca posting dari Dr Sheikh.

@ghadeer_muhammed16 I always tell my sister that I don’t want to get married because I want to have a successful career, and I don’t think there may be a man who encourages me to achieve my ambitions, but she always tells me that there are definitely men like this. I made sure of her words when I read your post. Inshallah Dr Halina will do well!!

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Sebagai ibu bapa kepada 4 cahaya mata, Dr Sheikh juga turut menetapkan beberapa peraturan dalam rumah yang tidak boleh dlakukan oleh mereka suami isteri. Jika diamalkan akan menjadikan mereka (anak-anak) seorang anak yang baik luar dan dalam satu hari nanti

1. Jangan bergaduh di depan anak-anak

2. Jangan tinggikan suara pada anak-anak

3. Sentisa wujudkan persekitaran menyeronokkan.

4. Sentiasa berkata ‘I Love U’ kepada anak-anak

5. Cium dan peluk anak 10 kali sehari

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Ternyata perkongsian Dr Sheikh ini juga turut mendapat pujian dari netizen. Mereka menjadikan tip ke ibu bapaan yang dikongsikan sebagai inspirasi dalam membentuk keluarga masing-masing.

@nanaaaayyy Thank you for being such an inspiration. This is beautiful.

@mansura2323 I adore ur parenting style sir @drsheikhmuszaphar its quite impressive and very inspiring for parents in today’s generation.. hoping for more tips from u 

@greiche Thank you for the reminder, doc.. your rules in your house is very good, hopefully I can do it too in my house.

KREDIT FOTO: INSTAGRAM DR SHEIKH MUSZAPHAR & DR HALINA

 

 

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